I'm not trying to come for you or offend you, but this is what its really like.
A phrase you add at the beginning or the end of a sentence that can be seen as negative to somebody, but its not supposed to be, and just stating the obvious.
Made popular by Qaadir <3<3<3
Ex. 2 - Girl please! I can't get with some one I'm not attracted to, No Tea No Shade!