Sex in a relationship that, for one reason or another, has degenerated to near nothing. No one in this marriage is getting any except with themselves
anymore. Happens after one or both loses interest
or gets fed up with the joyless sex of the other. May take years of normal marriage to get to this point usually
preceded by a period
of sex that feels a lot like wanking
anyway. Neither has the balls to admit it or the wherewithall to go out and just
cheat on the other to get off. Also characterized to close friends
- who couldn't help noticing
- as "mature" love.
and Wendy practised same-sex marriage - after almost
20 years of marriage, their sex life
non-existent - if it hadn't been for the wanking
indulged privately in, there wouldn't be any at all.