However, since most people would rather women be MORE sexually active than less, slut shaming is counterproductive to the aims of most men and quite a few ladies.
Guy 2: You idiot, do you want her to stop having sex? We should be encouraging this. Your slut shaming will simply discourage more women from sleeping with us and we will be virgins forever.
Many neo-feminists and radical feminist who have no concept of true feminism use the term incorrectly to attempt to call out anyone who makes a statement about their feelings on sluts, or for making statements such as "if she's been with 5 guys since Wednesday and it's only Saturday, she's not girlfriend material."
Much of what is pegged as slut shaming is nothing more than someone saying "sleeping around a lot is pretty disgusting and dangerous."
Radical NeoFeminist: HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT SHES A PROUD WOMYN AND HAS A RIGHT TO HAVE SEX WITH WHOMEVER SHE WANTS WHEN SHE WANTS STOP SLUT SHAMING
This word has been hijacked by modern "feminists" who think its use only targets women and poorly reflects on all women regardless of sexual orientation, sexual habits, and sexual practices.
Misuse of word is caused by confusion of the meaning of the word "slut".
"You asshole. That's totally acceptable behavior and you're just slut shaming her. You will only hurt her and the rest of womanhood."
It's used by feminists and a talking point given out to mangina white knights because they have an inferiority complex towards real women who are not sluts, ie non feminists and/or foreign women.