The state or quality of being thoughtful and internally aware, but also having the capability or skill to direct oneself outward
when it is appropriate.
Also a play on words - an exintrovert
is now no longer an introvert, because
they have chosen to become more socially outgoing.
I decided I should begin to learn
how to say what I think, but I usually think about it before I speak. I used
to be an introvert, now I am an exintrovert.