Someone who actually tries to fix their own problems instead
of fatalistically cowering in supplication. In other words, a man.
Ted got mad and called
me an overbearing control-freak today. It was devastating! I just wanted him to spend more time with
me - I mean, he wanted to go out with
his friends again, when
he just did that, like, last month! We barely
spend any time together as it is after I finish telling
him about my day, and doing chores together, going shopping with
him. He's so cruel and selfish. My therapist says he's a rageaholic.