Someone who actually tries to fix their own problems instead of fatalistically cowering in supplication. In other words, a man.
Ted got mad and called me an overbearing control-freak today. It was devastating! I just wanted him to spend more time with me - I mean, he wanted to go out with his friends again, when he just did that, like, last month! We barely spend any time together as it is after I finish telling him about my day, and doing chores together, going shopping with him. He's so cruel and selfish. My therapist says he's a rageaholic.